Being at an impasse doesn't mean we lack personal resources; it means the resources are temporarily unavailable. The task, therefore, is to move through blocks using communication and experimentation.
I hold the belief that within every life event exists its counterpart. For instance, in instances where individuals express negative self-descriptions, embedded within them could be their opposites. We are all composed of both light and shadow, with visible aspects and those still awaiting emergence, often revealing only one facet of ourselves externally. Change isn't about erasing or altering this dynamic; it's about incorporating diverse perspectives.
I believe we can only hypothesise and "negotiate" bits of mutual knowledge in the here and now and within relationships; it's always about meeting people where they are - in the present. This is the only time and space we have and precisely because of this - it's unique and it's a space of great possibilities. Relationships have the power to change people.
Once more, Gianfranco Cecchin's writings have illuminated a crucial difference: being useful to a client is distinct from merely offering help. This realisation stands as a significant milestone in my career. Striving to be useful in my practice leads me to a place of quiet presence, where I refrain from excessive action or words, instead providing a space for genuine listening. I've observed that people readily grasp this concept; it grants them the autonomy to activate their own inner resources, fostering meaningful self-discovery and empowerment.
Given the inherent freedom and capability within each individual, my role is simply to present ideas, paths, models, theories, and tools for my clients to consider. I then observe the outcomes, offer reflections, and assist them in either realigning or affirming the direction they wish to pursue.
I am a dedicated professional specialising in guiding development and transformation with individuals and groups.
I support individuals and organisations in unlocking their potential and empowering them to carve their own paths.
